Ko te mahi a te wahine he mea uaua: kare e hiahia ana ia ki te noho hei hoa wahine pai, engari ki te mohio ki te mea ngaro o te ahuatanga o tana tane. Na ko te nuinga ake o nga marena kei te marena i te ra marena , ko te whakaoti i tenei putanga. Engari, e whakaatu ana nga mahi o te ao i te mea ka pai tana whakatau i te wa e mohio ana te wahine i te hiahia kia noho tonu mo te hoa aroha o tana tane, ko ia anake e hiahiatia ana.
Me pēhea te pai ake mo taku tahu?
Tuatahi, he nui rawa, aroha ki a koe ano. Ae, ae, ko koe. Kia mahara ki te wa whakamutunga i kaaina ai e koe, i hoko atu ranei koe i tetahi mea hou, he ahua whakapaipai, kei te taha o tana tane i roto i te wharekai, i te wharekai ranei? Kaua e mahara? Na ka tuhia, ka whakatinanahia e matou te mahere.
Titiro ki a koe i roto i te whakaata me te whakautu pono: Kei a koe ano koe? Mena ko nga whakautu ko "No" ranei "Kahore ahau e mohio ana," whakaarohia e koe, mehemea kaore koe i pai ki a koe, he aha koe ka pai ai ki to tane ki te ara e penei ana koe inaianei? Na reira - mo te take:
- ka whakahaerehia e matou he tirotiro o nga kakahu kakahu, ka mutu te mau "mea pai", kua hokona mai 3-10 tau ki muri;
- haere ki te kaitoi ka hanga i te whakapaipai whakapaipai, ma te whakaaro e pehea ana te ahuareka rawa mo te tane;
- E hoko ana tatou i te kakahu pai;
- Ka tangohia e matou he koroka me te taraihu tawhito tawhito, no te mea ahakoa i te kainga ka pai te whakapaipai me te ataahua;
- ka tono tamariki i runga i te haerenga, ka whakarite tatou i tetahi hapa kai "mo te rua": kei te mahara tonu koe ki te aha? Engari, kia ahei ai te mahi i te ahiahi, kia pai te whakarite mo tenei tane, kia kore ai e pouri me te raruraru na te mea e kore e taea te tautuhi.
Kia waiho tenei ahiahi mo koe, whakahoutia, whakahou, me to hoa, titiro matatau ki tana hoa aroha me tana wahine e hiahiatia ana. Kaua e wehi ki te hoki mai mo etahi tau (tekau tau) hoki: ko tenei whakahoki ka tino reka, a, ka whakawarihia te raruraru o te ahuatanga o te moe me te hiahia.